Current:Home > ContactAlice Munro's daughter alleges she was abused by stepfather and her mom stayed with him -Blueprint Money Mastery
Alice Munro's daughter alleges she was abused by stepfather and her mom stayed with him
View
Date:2025-04-13 05:32:58
Alice Munro's daughter is alleging she was sexually abused by her stepfather and that the Nobel Prize-winning author stood by him.
In an essay published Sunday in the Toronto Star, Andrea Robin Skinner, Munro's daughter from her first marriage to James Munro, said she was sexually assaulted by Gerald Fremlin, her stepfather and Munro's second husband, in 1976. She was 9 years old at the time.
In 2005, Fremlin received two years' probation after pleading guilty in Canadian court to assaulting Skinner.
The assault occurred when Skinner went to visit Munro for the summer at her home in Ontario. Fremlin also "made lewd jokes, exposed himself during car rides, told me about the little girls in the neighbourhood he liked, and described my mother's sexual needs," she wrote. Once, in front of Munro, he "told me that many cultures in the past weren't as 'prudish' as ours, and it used to be considered normal for children to learn about sex by engaging in sex with adults," Skinner alleged.
Years later, when she was 25, Skinner says she wrote a letter to her mother telling her about the sexual abuse, but Munro was "incredulous." According to the essay, Fremlin told Munro that he "would kill me if I ever went to the police." Despite what Skinner had told her, the short story writer remained married to Fremlin until his death in 2013.
Check out: USA TODAY's weekly Best-selling Booklist
Alice Munro,Nobel Prize-winning author and master of the short story, dies at 92
"She said that she had been 'told too late,' she loved him too much, and that our misogynistic culture was to blame if I expected her to deny her own needs, sacrifice for her children, and make up for the failings of men," Skinner wrote. "She was adamant that whatever had happened was between me and my stepfather. It had nothing to do with her."
Skinner also said Fremlin's former friends told her mother that he exposed himself to their 14-year-old daughter.
Skinner ended contact with her mother after telling her that Fremlin could never be around her own kids, and the two never reconciled their relationship.
Though she wrote that she was "satisfied" with Fremlin pleading guilty to indecent assault, Skinner also wanted her story to be told and for future interviews and biographies of Munro to wrestle with "the fact that my mother, confronted with the truth of what had happened, chose to stay with, and protect, my abuser."
But Skinner said this did not happen, and due to her mother's fame, "the silence continued."
Alice Munrowins Nobel Prize in literature
The essay comes after Munro, who in 2013 was awarded the Nobel Prize in Literature, died in May at age 92 after suffering from dementia for over a decade.
"I want so much for my personal story to focus on patterns of silencing, the tendency to do that in families and societies," Skinner told the Toronto Star. "I just really hope that this story isn't about celebrities behaving badly … I hope that … even if someone goes to this story for the entertainment value, they come away with something that applies to their own family."
If you or someone you know has experienced sexual violence, RAINN’s National Sexual Assault Hotline offers free, confidential, 24/7 support to survivors and their loved ones in English and Spanish at: 800.656.HOPE (4673) and Hotline.RAINN.org and en Español RAINN.org/es.
veryGood! (635)
Related
- What do we know about the mysterious drones reported flying over New Jersey?
- Why Ian Somerhalder, Josh Hartnett and More Stars Have Left Hollywood Behind
- DeSantis-Newsom debate has sudden end, just after Hannity announces last-minute extension
- One homeless person killed, another 4 wounded in Las Vegas shooting
- Why members of two of EPA's influential science advisory committees were let go
- Why Kate Middleton Is Under More Pressure Than Most of the Royal Family
- Italian officials secure 12th Century leaning tower in Bologna to prevent collapse
- Florida State grinds out ACC championship game win with third-string QB under center
- Behind on your annual reading goal? Books under 200 pages to read before 2024 ends
- Ewers throws 4 TDs as No. 7 Texas bids farewell to Big 12 with 49-21 title win over Oklahoma State
Ranking
- What do we know about the mysterious drones reported flying over New Jersey?
- Travis Kelce stats: How Chiefs TE performs with, without Taylor Swift in attendance
- Beyoncé's 'Renaissance' film debuts in theaters: 'It was out of this world'
- Louisiana granted extra time to draw new congressional map that complies with Voting Rights Act
- Selena Gomez's "Weird Uncles" Steve Martin and Martin Short React to Her Engagement
- In some neighborhoods in drought-prone Kenya, clean water is scarce. Filters are one solution
- Search for military personnel continues after Osprey crash off coast of southern Japan
- Harris focuses on shaping a post-conflict Gaza during a diplomatic blitz in Dubai with Arab leaders
Recommendation
The Louvre will be renovated and the 'Mona Lisa' will have her own room
College football winners and losers for Week 14: Alabama, Texas on verge of playoff
Michigan vs Alabama, Washington vs. Texas in College Football Playoff; unbeaten Florida St left out
Kiss performs its final concert. But has the band truly reached the 'End of the Road'?
Paris Hilton, Nicole Richie return for an 'Encore,' reminisce about 'The Simple Life'
Joe Flacco will start for Browns vs. Rams. Here's why Cleveland is turning to veteran QB
Michigan vs Alabama, Washington vs. Texas in College Football Playoff; unbeaten Florida St left out
Review: The long Kiss goodbye ends at New York’s Madison Square Garden, but Kiss avatars loom